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By
Joe Blaschke
Most
overeating is emotional!
Very
few people realize that they are eating for emotional reasons and
then go after specific problems behind their eating to try to cure
them. If you are an overeater you need to understand the reasons
why you overeat which will help you change your eating patterns.
If not, you end up getting stuck in a self-defeating cycle like
this one; "You overeat because you're upset, you gain weight
because you overeat, you get upset because you've gained weight."
And you never seem to break out the cycle long enough to lose weight
or keep weight off.
If you have many pounds to lose, you've got to realize
that your life can be so much better than it is right now. If you're
not happy with yourself, you sure don't have to accept yourself
the way you are. Nobody's perfect, and we all have problems. Everybody
has something to improve in their lives whether it's changing a
negative habit or losing weight, the only way to achieve is beating
negative thinking by a positive attitude.
Too often, we tend to find good reasons to justify
ourselves.
For some reason, many people will not admit the real cause of their
overeating and will make up all kinds of excuses such as: "My
parents are fat so that's why I'm fat, it's hereditary." or
"I have a very stubborn metabolism, it's so slow." Making
excuses not to eat right or exercise regularly is only a way to
justifying why you can't change.
Do
we inherit fat?
You grow up not knowing the right way to eat and you grow up overweight.
In fact, it’s a pretty good bet that your overeating habits
are identical to your parents’ and that your figure much resembles
theirs. Actually, what really happens is that we inherit the bad
eating habits of those we grow up with. While obesity is sometimes
hereditary, it can be controlled by good eating habits, exercise
and a positive mental attitude.
What
is Metabolism and how does it affect your body?
You eat food, the body then goes through a process of breaking down
all the food and turning it into usable energy to keep you going.
To maintain a healthy weight, you need to balance your energy IN
and your energy OUT. More "in" than "out" =
overweight problems. The majority of us has a normally regulated
metabolism but many want to think it's slow as a reason for their
weight gain. For too many people, the result of sedentary living
is a losing battle against those extra pounds. Through moderate
daily exercise you will eat less and therefore lose the extra pounds.
Others
may say "I can't afford to be thin".
Our supermarkets are filled with convenient, tasteless plastic foods.
Shopping carts are overflowing with precooked, ready made, frozen
foods with lost nutritional values. All of these are high-cost and
high-fattening foods. You can afford to eat right and you can't
afford not to!
Emotional eaters will use food to manage their feelings
because food relieves tension. When focusing on food, it distracts
our minds from uncomfortable feelings (boredom, stress, anxiety,
loneliness...) that we would rather not tolerate. We reach for food
whenever we don't feel good about ourselves and emotional eating
becomes an ingrained habit.
The first step is to figure out what triggers your
emotional eating and learn how to deal with the worries and stress
that cause your overeating. Figure out why you are frustrated or
upset and begin looking for a cure to the problem. Whatever is bothering
you mentally needs some fresh air - not a bag of chips. Talk them
out. Discuss them with family or friends and if you don't want to
talk about it, do something, get active.
Begin understanding yourself and your needs. Before
reaching for another piece of cake, ask yourself "Am I really
hungry?" or before you automatically pop something into your
mouth keep asking yourself "Why am I feeling hungry?"
Learn to recognize your hunger. Don't be scared to question yourself
and get to the bottom of the problem.
Keep
a food journal. By tracking your eating habits, it will
help you see your consumption level and understand what triggers
your binges. Make a list of other things you can do. Try going for
a walk, cleaning the house, exercising, calling a friend or listen
to music.
Never
focus on dieting or weight loss!
If you feel out of control around food, stop being obsessed with
your weight. Most diets require you to ban your favorite foods leaving
you unsatisfied and setting off negative feelings. Diet deprivation
only sets up cravings and causes you to eat more than you really
need to. Just forget about dieting and focus on self-care, eating
well and being fit.
Start
focusing on changing your lifestyle habits by eating healthy, exercising
regularly while keeping a positive attitude. The day you stop being
obsessed with your weight, will be the day of your success. Remember
one thing, you have control over your life and it's your decision
to change your lifestyle. You're worth it!
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